The Void
for women living between worlds
Begins December 21 Solstice
Ends March 21 Equinox
A three-month translocal journey for women navigating the space between what was and what is becoming
Hosted by Shilpa Jain
We are living through a time when old stories, systems, and ways of being are dissolving, while what comes next emerges.
Many of us can feel this transition in our own lives.
Some of us have left institutions, careers, relationships, or ways of living in service of what felt more true.
Some of us have devoted ourselves to work that serves something larger than ourselves, only to discover that our culture does not yet know how to support or value the lives we are attempting to live.
We've chosen integrity over convention. Meaning over status. Relationship over achievement. Enough over more.
And yet, instead of arriving somewhere, many of us have found ourselves in unfamiliar territory.
The ways we have lived no longer fit, but the next way has not yet revealed itself. Something is ending, something else is trying to emerge.
We find ourselves living between worlds.
Our culture offers us few places to practice not knowing
We live within cultural systems that reward certainty, productivity, and progress.
We celebrate arrival, but rarely honor the mysterious and fertile spaces in between.
But many of us have experienced seasons in life when things go dark.
In these times much of life may appear dormant, though profound processes of transformation are underway beneath the surface.
What if this experience is not as personal as we sometimes feel it to be, but part of a larger cultural and initiatory process?
What if the uncertainty itself has something to teach us?
What if we allowed ourselves to inhabit this territory rather than rushing toward its resolution?
And what if we didn't have to navigate it alone?
The Void :: a space that invites us to let go of what we thought our lives should be and invites us into a process of becoming
The Void is the territory between what has ended and what has not yet emerged.
Sometimes life pulls us into the Void through loss, transition, disillusionment, or the unraveling of an old identity. Some of us have lived there for seasons, some for years.
But the Void can also be entered intentionally.
We can choose to loosen our grip on what we think should happen next and become available to the mystery of what is becoming.
The Void asks us to surrender
It is not a place to command, direct our will, or control the outcome.
It asks us to listen. To participate. To become intimate with uncertainty. To trust that transformation can be underway before we understand its shape.
We enter into this process not only for ourselves, but as part of a greater collective process of transformation, of which we are an essential fractal.
What if we entered the unknown together?
This Solstice, we invite women living between worlds to intentionally enter The Void together.
For three months, we'll create a sacred and relational space in which we can surrender, listen deeply, make meaning of the territory we're inhabiting, and become present to what wants to emerge.
Some of us may already be deep in a season of not knowing. Some may be standing at a threshold. Others may simply recognize that the old maps no longer lead where we need to go.
We gather to discover what becomes possible when we inhabit that space together.
We gather to:
cultivate our capacity to be in the mystery and allow what wants to emerge
know that we are not alone in experiencing a liminal way of life
make meaning of the territory we are navigating
honor the wisdom cultivated through seasons of mystery and becoming
be together during a time of profound cultural transition
weave together the gifts and wisdom emerging from our lives between worlds
Over three months, we’ll gather in an ecosystem of women living between worlds.
Rather than trying to determine what comes next, we'll cultivate the conditions in which something new can reveal itself.
Through conversation, ritual, reflection, relationship, and the wisdom of rites of passage, we'll explore the territory of the unknown—both individually and collectively—and we’ll plant seeds of possibility that can root into something long lasting.
We'll listen for the wisdom that has already been cultivated through our lives between worlds, and for what may want to take shape through our relationships with one another.
We don't know exactly what will come of our time together or who we'll each become.
That's part of the experiment of being held together in the Unknown.
The Core Elements
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Virtual Gatherings
Together we’ll explore the themes of this journey through the wisdom of rites of passage.
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Kinship Pods
Journey with a regional kinship pod of 3-8 women, facilitated by a Kinvener.
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Kinveners
A Guide for you and your Kinship Pod to support coherence with your group and the wider field.
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Guest Speakers
Hear from others who have journeyed through the Void and found wisdom in the dark.
Kinship Pods & Kinveners
Kinship Pods
Kinship pods will be your home space through our time in The Void.
These groups of 3-8 will be organized by region / locations as much as possible. You are welcome to join with other kin, or on your own and be placed into a group. If there aren’t others in your region, we’ll organize you into a virtual group.
Kinveners
Kinveners are designated guides for each kinship pod.
They will weave your kinship group within the larger ecoystem and brings coherence with the rites of passage journey facilitated by the main team. Kinveners include coaches, community organizers, and women called to hold space for this journey.
The Journey
Introduction
We’ll open our container by sharing introductions, building agreements, and grounding in the history and context of this work. Together, we’ll review the Foreword, Prelude, and Chapters 1–3 to orient to the journey ahead. We’ll also be joined by special musical guests, MaMuse - and, will review elements of the Gift Economy
Vulnerability Rally
We’ll review Chapters 4–6 and engage in the Vulnerability Rally: an interactive practice where we experience fierce vulnerability with each other in real time.
Embodied Presence
In this session, we’ll review chapters 7-10 and hear from guest speaker, Kaira Jewel Lingo, author of Healing Our Way Home, who will speak to the importance of spiritual grounding and guide us in some practice.
The Power of Grief
In relation to chapters 11-13 and the Coda we’ll hear from guest speaker Francis Weller, author of the Wild Edge of Sorrow, about the importance of grief in the work of healing and social change.
We’ll also use this session to transition from discussing the book to putting its principles into practice through our group experiments.
From Deep Listening to Reciprocity
Vickie Chang will guide us in listening to and learning from the natural world as we begin shaping our collaborative experiments in fierce vulnerability. This session offers grounding and inspiration for the next phase of our work together as we remember to accept the unknown and listen to the voice of emergence.
The Infinity Spiral of Life and Death
LiZhen Wang will lead a somatic practice to help us lean into death as a sacred part of life’s cycle. This embodied work will deepen our projects and expand how we honor life and community.
Grounding & Resilience
Oren Jay Sofer will share mindfulness and emotional regulation practices that cultivate grounding and resilience. We’ll also pause to hear from kinship pods, reflecting on what’s emerging and what support is needed for the experiments ahead.
Closing
We’ll celebrate our shared journey, harvest insights from the pod experiments, and engage in a closing ritual to mark this chapter together and honor what’s to come. We will also be joined by poet and song-leader Lu Aya from the Peace Poets to help close us out.
***In addition to the eight live sessions, we invite each Pod to meet 4-5 times during the course of our three-months together.
***All Sessions will be recorded and recordings will be available to registered participants within 48-hours.
Join us in The Void
$125 Program Fee
Offerings to your Kinvener
will be invited in the spirit of the Gift Economy
Your $125 contribution goes to Kinvene and The Void facilitators
At the end of the program we will invite you to make an additional financial offering to your Kinvener as a gift for their role in guding your kinship pod
Once you register we’ll collect info to place you into your kinship pod.
Meet Your Guides
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Kazu Haga is a trainer and practitioner of nonviolence and restorative justice, a core member of the Fierce Vulnerability Network, a founding core member of the Ahimsa Collective, a Jam facilitator and author of Healing Resistance: A Radically Different Response to Harm and Fierce Vulnerability: Healing from Trauma, Emerging through Collapse. He has over 25 years of experience in nonviolence and social change work. He is a resident of the Canticle Farm community on Lisjan Ohlone land, Oakland, CA, where he lives with his family.
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Kaira Jewel Lingo is a Dharma teacher with a lifelong commitment to spirituality and social justice. Her work continues the Engaged Buddhism developed by Thich Nhat Hanh, and she draws inspiration from her parents’ lives of service and her dad’s work with Martin Luther King, Jr. After living as an ordained nun for 15 years in Thich Nhat Hanh’s monastic community, Kaira Jewel now teaches internationally in the Zen lineage and the Vipassana tradition, as well as in secular mindfulness, at the intersection of racial, climate and social justice with a focus on Black, Indigenous, and People of Color, and activists, as well as artists, educators, families, and youth. Based in New York, she offers spiritual mentoring to groups and is author of We Were Made for These Times: Ten Lessons in Moving through Change, Loss and Disruption and co-author of Healing Our Way Home: Black Buddhist Teachings on Ancestors, Joy and Liberation. Her upcoming events and teachings can be found at www.kairajewel.com.
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Francis Weller is a writer and soul activist who has worked as a psychotherapist for more than 40 years. He's the author of many books and projects including the beloved grief text, The Wild Edge of Sorrow: Rituals of Renewal and the Sacred Work of Grief.
Francis is currently on staff at Commonweal Cancer Help Program. He also founded and directs WisdomBridge, an organization that offers educational programs that seek to integrate the wisdom from indigenous cultures with the insights and knowledge gathered from western poetic, psychological, and spiritual traditions.
His most recent collection is In the Absence of the Ordinary: Soul Work for Times of Uncertainty.
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The second daughter of Chinese immigrants, Vickie Chang was born and raised in the SF Bay Area. Her work as a psychologist, facilitator, and writer is guided by Chinese ancestral wisdom including Buddhism and Taoism; Indigenous teachings; and 大地母親 (the Great Earth Mother), including the mountains Tuuyshtak, 武當山 (Wǔdāng Shān), Arunachala, and the Sangre de Cristos. Some of her teachers include West African (Dagara) elder Dr. Malidoma Somé, Jicarilla Apache elder Dr. Eduardo Duran, and Anuttara Lakshmin Nath. See more on her background and work at www.vickiechangphd.com
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LiZhen Wang drinks from a mighty confluence of ancestral traditions: Daoist-Buddhist practice, ancient astrology, and the most primal ritual of all, mothering. She is an astrologer as well as Co-Director at the School of Unusual Life Learning (SoULL), where they offer nature-based, life-cycle teachings that ease existential suffering in a time of systems collapse. Experiencing her mother’s death was one of the greatest spiritual revelations of LiZhen’s life. It has opened them to the incredible richness of a life that includes, not avoids, death.
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Oren Jay Sofer teaches meditation and communication internationally, integrating classical Buddhist training with Nonviolent Communication and Somatics. He holds a degree in Comparative Religion from Columbia University and is a Certified Trainer of Nonviolent Communication and a Somatic Experiencing Practitioner. Oren is the author of several books, including the best-seller Say What You Mean and Your Heart Was Made for This. A husband and father, he lives in the San Francisco Bay Area and teaches worldwide through courses and guided meditations. www.orenjaysofer.com
Special Musical & Poetry Guests
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Wholeheartedly fed by the folk and gospel traditions, MaMuse (Sarah Nutting and Karisha Longaker) create uplifting music to inspire the world into thriving. Interweaving brilliant and haunting harmony with lyrics born of honed emotional intelligence, MaMuse invokes a musical presence that inspires the opening of the heart. Playing a family of varied acoustic instruments including upright bass, guitar, mandolins, and flutes, these two powerful women embody a love for all life. The synergy that is created through this musical connection is palpable and truly moving to witness.
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Lu Aya is a co-founder of the Peace Poets and a father, son, brother, cousin, nephew, poet, student, educator, emcee, musician, facilitator, freedom singer, friend and cultural worker. He sees all of these roles as sacred spaces to listen, love and learn more and more, day by day, how to embody healing. He believes that the foundation of working for liberation is always here and now with all our relations.
Frequently asked questions
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Tuesdays (+ 2 Fridays - April 3 and 17)
11am–1pm PT / 2–4pm ET
8 sessions across 3 months (weekly at first, then bi-monthly):
Start Date: March 24, 2026
End Date: June 9, 2026All sessions will be recorded and recordings will be available to registered participants within 48-hours of each live session.
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We’ll help all participants join a kinship pod: small groups of 3-8 people. In localities with 3+ participants, local kin groups will be encouraged.
If no local pod exists, we will support participants in joining online kin groups based on geography/time zone or affinity.
if there is anyone in your local community that you want to go through this course with, having pre-existing relationships can really support your journey through this work. Feel free to join with someone you know or with your own group.
Each group will be supported in carrying out a collaborative project aligned with the book’s themes.
Kinship pods will meet during session breakouts and are invited to meet in-person as much as they’d like - we recommend meeting for project planning in the off-weeks when we are not hosting group sessions.
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Yes, all sessions will be hosted on Zoom and will be recorded. All registered participants will have access to a portal that will house audio and video recordings, transcripts and other program information.
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The Gift Economy is a method of managing resources that is modeled after natural ecosystems, and which aims to create sustainability for all people. Gifts, like this program, that are offered in the Gift Economy are not “free.” They are an invitation into a reciprocal relationship with the giver. During the program, we will share more about what this means and offer invitations for you to help make this program sustainable. No amount will be too small or too large.
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This program is a soft re-launch of the Fierce Vulnerability Network. After this program culminates, pods and individuals who would like to continue will have the opportunity to join an additional two-month program to onboard into the Network.
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Email support@kinvene.co for program support. We’ll direct your questions to the best person.
For a list of more FAQs about pods, gift economy and more go here.